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The week was a special week…Vikaas… my better half…his 50th birthday…I had been planning it for almost a year…making someone feel special is not easy…yet it’s so easy… I wanted to do something very different…and I was able to… the details are a long story… so I will share only a few things…

There was no big party… Only those few people who have been there on the journey with him…who touched his life in some way…

No Facebook posts…no photo sharing…no gala event…no flowers…

Thousands of candles…as lights are life…no flowers…just lights…thousands of them…twinkling…

People to whom he matters… made a surprise visit to him…

It reminds me…don’t let the important occasions in your life go ignored… because you are busy…what we call life is these and those small and big days in our lives…

The morning started with doing the path to temple n swimming pool filled with flowers…as this is the first start…

I love art …I got two artworks commissioned by a great artist…Gulab Kapadia…he painted the journey of the man with the flowers…

I could manage to write a book on his life…though I couldn’t complete it to be published…as lots of input and information was needed for him… but I started it… so it will be completed and published also by next year…

I got a video made with family and friends speaking a few words about him…

When I say I…believe me…it was we who could pull all this together…I alone is a lone one…a lot of people supported me in putting things together…it was a big day…to make one feel special is a very thoughtful n a tricky situation…so I thank the active and silent support system…the universe helping me to do things in a beautiful manner…thank you life…

Thanks to the hairdresser @looks salon who gave me a lovely hairdo…I wouldn’t have looked as beautiful as I was…had he not given me the perfect look…

Rudribhishek and service to Brahmins and old people in Haridwar on his birthday

 

The week that was…had small other things like going to the dentist twice with my daughter…him opening the clinic for me on a national holiday…my gratitude…

Meeting two friends and family… on Sunday…to let them feel that they matter to me…I have time for you…

A beautiful click …@my home…love this photo of my nephew…Eshaan…

Going for the PTM…school visit…standing in lines…waiting for teachers…wish it could be better organised.

Another birthday in the family…again putting the thoughtful gifts…thoughtful thoughts together… it’s a task…it’s challenging…but it’s fulfilling…Again…I learnt in life…be mindful…be present…

 

News that disturbed me rather shocked me…

How could the police kill the Apple employee in Lucknow…how could he shoot at him? How can we be safe…when the protector becomes the killer?

Thank God…

Supreme Court’s landmark verdict on women adultery… “Women cannot be regarded as a property of husband anymore”… the earlier law told the husband…” your wife is your property and if any man took her without your consent…then as lord and master, you can put the THIEF in jail for 5 years…” I didn’t know the law existed…I smile at the judicial system and its rules n laws…

When I noticed… Deepika Padukone wearing something similar to what I wore the other day…I smiled again…

It’s we who have everything or something special in us…it’s good to look upon the celebrity…the successful…the famous…but don’t forget …we all are special…and…Beautiful…in our own way…

Love you life…