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When you start valuing your life little more and taking care of it with utmost care is then you know you are a mom now…

A very tough process of being a mother, when your self esteem is low…you are a plus size mom…you are disconnected from your previous life styles…your profession…your fit n perfect look…

Depressions.. frustrations…helplessness…late night duties…AND YOU KNOW YOU ARE A MOM…

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I have always wondered…can a man ever understand the motherhood ..no…he cannot.. no one can…it simply  takes to be a mother to know what it is…

When your tiny little baby is sleeping next to you…and you put your hands gently 20 times in the night to check if he is breathing okay or not…YOU ARE A MOM…

When you are on the dinner table with your favorite food in the plate…waiting for your child to eat first….telling him….’’no…no.. you finish it …I didn’t like it much….you eat..’’…. YOU ARE A MOM…

When your son is in college…busy in his new life…calling once in a while…but the day he needs you…mom is the first person he calls……YOU KNOW YOU ARE A MOM…

When you go or shopping for yourself and end up buying the whole store  for the baby because everything was so cute….YOU KNOW YOU ARE A MOM..

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When the baby is class 8th student…science….debates…computer science… Spanish…projects…you become a student again…sitting on computers at late nights working with Google uncle….YOU KNOW YOU ARE A MOM….

Always struggling for the answers…how much n what time to speak with dad…watching the baby steps…trying to create a balance between pampering and spoiling …….discipline and freedom issues…and never ending questions n answers…always doubting your ability of being the right parent…

Roles keep on changing from a new born child’s mommy to a school going kid’s mom

…Then your child is in teens….oh my God …you are in total denial…is it the relationship I built with my child over the years??……AND  I AM A MOM…

In college your child who is 18 now…the DP..(DISPLAY PROFILE PICTURE : ) ) in social media  is changed from single to double…you sit back n smile… Another journey has started…NOW YOU ARE A MOM… with different responsibilities..

BUT YOU ARE A MOM..…NOT JUST A MOM…..A SUPER MOM……

WOW…MOM..

BE PROUD…BE HAPPY…BE THANKFUL…HAVE GRATITUDE..BECAUSE YOU ARE A MOM…..

LOVE YOU LIFE…

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