Let me touch some pain points today…something which is hanging in the air with a big wide open mouth….courtesy sipping thoughts …we are meeting people from all different aspects of life..struggling..confused…suffering..happy..unaware..innocent..vulnerable..

the big question is infidelity. No one wants to accept. No one is saying that they are victims too. They are not sure about their partners too. Such a taboo. As if accepting your partner’s infidelity will make you a victim…
I am not getting into the morality n social set up kind of debate…as it is a big subject in itself. Who made the social systems. Can marriages survive? Are temptations n situations the reason for the infidelity…
I am first stuck with the question is…what is infidelity??
Eyeing someone…
Talking flirtishly…
Texting n sexting…
One night stands..
Just a drive. Wine n dinner..
touching someone inappropriately..
watching pornography..


these are the grey areas. Black n white toh we all are aware. Written all over in google n books…
we are trying to shrug our shoulders saying it does not happen around us..
so please tell me who are these people who are meeting the therapists .who are talking to life coaches. Relationship Counselors. Who are these advertisements targeted to ..you open one wrong window on your computer n pop-ups of girls advertising to talk sex..showing the closest possibility of a sex worker or a sex entertainer? Even me being a girl sometimes wonder n want to open that window n chat to the person offering pleasures .to see what is it all about..
do we think men will not think the same…so I am not scaring anyone…life is beautiful. It’s a reality. Dream but wake up n live open-eyed.Trust but be aware n wise…

marriage n committment scare us ..may be because we try to hold it too tight n too close to our hearts..let it breath..let it be free..it is yours..if it is not..its no point holding it close..
Because it’s a beautiful life..#loveyoulife

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